Slow Sunday Control You Already Or Are You Still Alive?

We have left too long much you on weekends alone, don’t you find? And that’s why I must today quite solemnly (and a tiny bit excited) announce, which is exactly that conclusion immediately. May we introduce? Slow Sunday – and an effort is still more life to devote, his small Stolpersteinchen and great opportunities.

There is nothing better than to write about topics that concern me every day for me, and right here is the latest section. In addition to fair Friday I will you so off immediately before a new start of the week with my personal life balance findings disturbing. And na, blessing: as on Friday going on Sunday to sustainability. And to sustainability in dealing with our own. So!

And why the whole thing? Well, I was unhappy. It is a long time. And have started some time ago to look for answers. The results surprised me. Despite the properties that I most appreciate discipline, organizational skills and stamina – me – I went to very long time responsibly no piece of herself at all with my resources. I have tried to develop poise with a totally wrong approach. With discipline, with to do lists, with too much rationality. And I achieved the opposite. It should not go here stress, stress and strain to a counter-proposal to complexity, because I firmly believe that we need these factors, to grow and to be satisfied. The slow Sunday aims to create a parallel to them. It should therefore go, to be honest with yourself.

Before I threw all my principles overboard and (my feeling after) made a pact with the devil, I was almost completely consistent. And duly ignorant. I have abided by for particularly rational and disciplined, because I have given nothing all that talk of a slow living. Less stress, good to be, create space, boredom have. For me, the thing was clear: this is only an attempt to camouflage lazy as a decision. This all is very ordinärer loss of control. I hate lazy. It caused chip crumbs on the sofa and Staubmutzeln behind the door. I would not go on lonely mountain huts and sipping murky herbal tea. And anyway, who can afford to have? And what happens when you get to about the herbal tea with his companion in the hair? Has anybody ever thought? No, I knew better how you developed satisfaction, namely with control over his life. With long lists and continuous formulation of priorities. For me, this was logical: If what you want to change, you have to work for this.

In retrospect, it took me a surprisingly long time to really understand that the control over my life was already slipping out of me. Or I may never had it? The more I have ploughed, I was the unfulfilled. So simply worded it almost mundane sounds but when it comes to a itself goes, then missing just the distance. In addition, it is not particularly difficult to confuse control compulsion with actual problem solving. What followed was an emotional Valley, a bitter fight between my desire to do lists to capture and the growing desire for inner balance. Finally I gave up, allied myself with the enemy by higher faster further and may announce today: I will be satisfied by the day. All Kindle without incense (no offense!), vacation in the Schweigekloster (no offense Pocket!), religion (no offense Pocket!) and meditation (no offense Pocket!). In good phases, I can now even more, my life has more structure and I have more time available. I would go as far and say I am closer than ever about my life the control.

Why me (and, I’m sure many others, too) often so much find it hard, to be honest with me instead of always remains a mystery just demanding and tough, me probably forever. This changes must be not always large, perhaps even the contrary. If it takes a very big, drastic and rapid change, it often is because previously too much wrong.

About: Provision operate, rather than to fires, in mini-increments, with fun and curiosity, without pressure. And I would like to share some insights and findings on my journey now with you. Always Sunday.

And if your concrete suggestions to the “slow Sunday” did or always “this and that” wanted to know then is simply beep! Huge anyway, we appreciate your feedback.

 

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